just wanted to say i forgive you. see, i was letting you get in my head and my bloggity blog was suffering because when i would go to push that "publish post" button i would wonder "what's anonymous going to say/think?" and wouldn't publish. hence the lack of posts lately ....
and i realize you didn't mean the comment to be hurtful. you're not a hurtful type of person ... i think it was moreso an invitation for me to be introspective and make sure i was giving my 1st the same love and adoration i give my 2nd. so thanks for that. and it did lead to introspection and better parenting on my part.
so, i know who you are (well, i'm in the low 90s percent sure i know who you are). i'm sorry it's been so awkward. i never want to talk about this face to face so let's just forgive and forget and move on. i'm really pathetic with confrontations. so, friends? or at least let's say hi and be cordial and all that ...
deal?
stef j.
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Don't ever hold back, girl. You've got great things going on in that head of yours.
that is sad that it is someone you know. but i am glad that you forgave them. the thing is, i don't feel like i can even judge other parents because i have so many "learning" moments myself. you know? and i feel very inadequate at times.
and what do you mean about the posts lately? i like em. but they aren't as frequent as i'd like. :-) oh, and how'd your hubby's test go?
someone you know? ouch. that is crappy.
keep on postin'
i like your blog
i like your posts
i like you
ditto to echo.
At first I was going to write something like, "okay, okay you found me out! I'm sorry I wrote that." But then I thought, "Hmm, might not be funny to anybody else but me because others wouldn't know that it really wasn't me." Sorry. I'm crazy! No but really, this KILLS me that someone still wrote that. I REALLY want to know this persons current family situation because if they have more than one child then you'd think they'd understand. It's not that you love any one child more or less, its you love them differently. I can stand Brody better than Drew and Kurt can stand Drew better than Brody. Does that mean that I love Brody more than Drew? No. It's too bad that anonymous felt they had to be mean spirited about it instead of giving you good friendly advice. You are an amazing person to be able to forgive them so quickly. Something I need to learn. Love you and miss you Stef!
Yeah it is crappy that it is someone you know. Well I like you. Actually I would like to take this oppotunity at 12:00AM on Friday the 29th to say I really like you. You have made my life a little brighter by knowing you and your peeps :)
Just don't forget: I like you.
And your little blog too!
:)
Wow, you are a better person than me. I would not be so kind. I kinda wish I knew who it was. I'm nosy like that.
Even though the words were hurtful in the beginning, at least you turned it into something positive and chose to forgive. You're a good woman. And a good mom. Don't ever think otherwise.
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